Catalina Loves

The responses to this thread have been really interesting. A few people have sent comments privately, but wish to share them anonymously.

“For me it’s a thing of finding the right balance between submission and power. Being submissive is having power and being in control. You control yourself and let yourself be submissive. A slave doesn’t have that control. He or she is at the will of someone else. The submissive decides, indeed for herself or himself, that another can take control.  Therefore, swallowing your master cum isn’t about being a slut, it’s about love and dedication, giving an honor.” — Ken

“I think that you all are over analyzing this situation. I don’t try so much to explain my sexuality but accept the way I am. When I am dominating to a submissive I feel we are giving ourselves to each other and fulfilling each other’s desires and needs. My wife is a very strong woman and we share in all aspects of our life totally. When we are in the bedroom, her calling me Master and submitting to my desires does not at all make her less of a person than me or make me greater than she. Plainly put it is just what gets us off. It brings out the sexuality in both of us. Still I can not explain the way I am or what I like to do sexually but I accept and embrace the way I feel.” — Fred

And finally, I came across this little quote from my husband’s Siddha Yoga guru today while link-hopping:

“Discipline gives total freedom; it allows you to go beyond your limitations, to break through boundaries and reach the highest goal. The path to discipline will not only save a person’s life, it will also give it meaning. How? By introducing him to deeper joys and deeper longings, by creating a silence in which the whisper of the heart can be heard. Truly, discipline is the road to liberation.” –Gurumayi Chidvilasananda