Sarge and Claire Adams on Backdoorbondage.com

Sgt. Major might be better known as the Kink.com dom with the mask on. He’s made more than a few appearances at Kink.com and has just recently done a shoot with Nika Noire. What you might not know is that the Sarge has his own site and makes his own content. Where does Claire Adams go when she wants to hand over her power? To BackdoorBondage.com, where Sarge gave her what she needed. It is really a sublime scene. Lucky Catalina - I get to talk to Sarge and Maya Matthews on a regular basis, so I asked a few questions I thought you might be interested in knowing.

How did you end up working with Kink.com? Do you still work with them?

I met Matt Williams at Bondcon 2003 in Vegas. He and I became very dear friends and when they tried to start Bondage Trials I applied for it and have been guest rigging for them ever since that time. I still to go out from time to time to guest rig for them they are like a second family to me. But it is really important for people to know that I have my own place that allows me to do the things that I really love them most. I try to keep my bondage as close to H.O.M. as possible.

From where does the Sgt. Major persona originate?

Well after over two decades in the Martial Arts I refuse to call myself Master. I think the word is over used in Martial Arts training as well as the BDSM lifestyle. So I picked the one rank in the military that even the officers would not fuck around with. I have never served, but have a great deal of respect for those that do. Hence I decided on the term Sgt. Major.

Do you and Maya Matthews live a 24/7 lifestyle?

Yes, she is the air that I breathe. For me, without her, life would have no color. We have a slave manual and view it as a living document. Our lifestyle is very well suited to how we want to live.

Where does Backdoorbondage.com come from? How would you describe your content? Who are the major players?

Backdoor Bondage was actually Maya’s idea because she knows I am such an ass man and love to tag hot women in the ass as I clamp one hand around their throat and the other over their mouth. I used to have Bondage Barrix and wanted to redefine my style to look a bit more streamlined.

Maya and myself are the primary players. I have become really close with many of the models that we work with. Amber Rayne will be on out site as long as she wants to be along with other girls. John Blakemore is a huge player on my site even though he will not appear on film. It’s hard to believe that the father of modern bondage or the main man from H.O.M. is my friend and actually takes the time to help me out.

What is the main difference between your work with Backdoorbondage.com and Kink.com as you see it?

Well at Backdoorbondage.com I don’t have as many shooting rules. I will do more with abductions and tend to let a girl cry if she wants to go there. Working at Kink.com has allowed me to do some of my best work ever because of the manpower there. I can just rig and when I am done I walk off the set - I don’t have to coil rope or clean dildos or ass hooks. At my place I am a jack-of-all-trades.

I guess I like to get more physical with the girls at my place because the only one I have to answer to is Maya. When I shot Sarah Jane Ceylon for my site she had huge bruises on her inner thighs for over two weeks. I could never do that at Kink.com because the talent department would snap their collective feet off in my ass.

Why the mask? Do you have a mask fetish?

Two words, vanilla fuckers. I wear it now because Maya loves it and says that it really makes me different. At first it was because I did not want people in my community to know, now it’s more about the guy behind the mask could be anyone. Many women like it because it allows them to fantasize about any man abducting them. Many people have spoken out about it, but they can go fuck themselves because it caught Maya’s attention. If I were ever to work for a company like Kink full time I would take it off, but right now I think its different and with all sorts of fluffy shit being produced these days, different is not so bad.

I notice you doing more abduction/rape fantasy scenes, is that something new or something newly revisited?

Rape fantasy and abduction finds its way into every sexual fantasy I have. This is not recent at all and I would have gone deeper into this, but the far right wing and their desire to jamb their views down people’s throats caused me to stop doing it. Nowadays the credit card processors can also fuck with a guy for doing it, so I have to be careful. Make no mistake about it, if I get the chance I want to keep going with it and go deeper into edge play. There is a reason why most women have a forced sex fantasy - they don’t want to really be raped, but they do want to be forced on their own terms - at least the chicks I fuck like it, my sweet Maya loves it.

Do you make the content for Backdoorbondage.com in your home, have a compound (like IntotheAttic.com), or do you shoot in a studio?

When ever I go out to shoot for Kink I always shoot in San Fransisco, sometimes we fly models in and we shoot in the basement of our home. I love the old warehouse or construction site look. I really have to watch what I am doing because the vanilla folks where I live would not understand. About the only place I really don’t want to shoot anymore is a hotel room, I think that really screams new guy.

If you had a magic genie and could make three wishes, which three women would you like to see appear at your doorstep?

Well given the fact that they would agree to be bound and molested, shit Sara Palin does not do it for me so i guess I would have to say… I hate to say this, but now that Brittany is working out again and appears to be getting her collective wits back, i would love to put an ass hook in her and tie it off to a hair tie, my guess is that she would look great hogtied.

Alicia Sacromone is 20 years old and fair game, she is one hell of a sexy gymnast.

I would really like to put Jessica Alba in some real bondage not that shit she has been featured in, bitch needs a crotch rope not that fluffy goddamn glam shit.

Do you see a conflict between being a big, badass Dom and also being a loving and caring partner in a relationship?

No only people with small dicks think that way, a Dom does say sorry or I was wrong or I love you. Let’s be fucking clear about this one, the power is given to us, that means that subs have the power. Try hanging some vanilla bitch from you rafters and taking a flogger to her pussy then ass fucking her. Then get ready to spend the next 20 years of your life not dropping the soap in prison.

A scene is all about respect. That does not make me a service top in any way either. You talk to any bitch who have ever played with me, I mean really played, and they will tell you I can get really physical and very aggressive. At the same time they can shut the interaction down with a safe word and be as safe as a babe in mom’s arms. I do not allow myself to be topped from the bottom, so if that starts I will get into a girl’s shit quickly. But on the same hand, I am not the type to think that Doms have some special status just because they are Doms. If a guy is strong enough to be gentle and knows when to turn up the heat, most likely he can read his sub and that means to me he is keyed into energy and realizes that people have different needs that change constantly… well I guess he would be OK in my book.

Is there a connection between the discipline and power structure of Martial Arts and the discipline and power structure of D/s?

Its been said that in order to be a good top you have to have been on the bottom. I guess that is where I have been on the bottom doing Budo training (martial arts). Respect is key in both areas and power comes in many forms.

Soft does not mean weak, and if someone thinks that way they to me are clearly a knuckle dragging asshole. All the people I work with are very attractive women who could be view as soft. If you know anything about this lifestyle you know subs are not weak, indeed they are some of the strongest fucking people I have ever known.

Now apply that same concept to Budo training, there are some guys who think soft is not good, to me they are clueless dumbshits. You take a tire iron and I will take a bamboo escrima stick, and I will kill you dead as Julius Caesar, that’s a promise. Fuck, there are way too many similarities to get into because they lifestyle and Budo are almost the same. People come into both seeking something, and all too often someone with too little knowledge who takes themselves way to seriously has to lord their power over others to try and justify a tiny dick.

I heard through the kinkvine that you are writing a book. What’s that about and how is that coming along?

Indeed! it is going to be the accounts of a young boy turned man and his love of bondage. The pathway of my journey has allowed me to spend time with the best people I have ever met in my life, including Maya. She is actually the one that inspired me to do it. In short I am going to chronicle the ascension of a guy from Vanillaville, USA into the world of BD/SM porn. I used to be a card-carrying Republican and a homophobe. Well, that has all changed to a point where I needed to let those poor dumb trapped bastards in Vanillaville know that tying up women and beating there asses is a good thing. The journey is understanding that and finding the women who want it done to them. The title speaks volumes about the book but I can’t give it away at the current time. I have big plans but its going to take a ton of work that will reflect a shit load of humor and some sorrow that I hope some people can avoid as they find their way.

And finally, since I am obsessed with cereal, I asked him, “What is your favorite cereal,” to which he replied, “I love shredded wheat, frosted naturally.” I love Sgt. Major - I, too, love shredded wheat, frosted! We should have no problem deciding on breakfast in the morning when our paths cross.

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