What do a blindfold, a speculum, and rope all have in common?
They were three items included in the FetLife Kinky Christmas Stockings that each of the FetLife volunteer greeters and caretakers received.
If you’ve already forgotten about that, here are three visual reminders, all used with permission. See if you can figure out which sexy greeter [...]
This morning I did another interview on Latina radio in Charlotte, on 102.3 FM. I walked away from it reflective, thinking what I could have said, should have said, might have said, how I said it and after picking myself apart thoroughly, I really came from it with one thought - I’m reminded that mainstream [...]
I’m pretty sure from where my fetish for medical play stems - as a young woman I worked for a physician in Phoenix. To protect his identity, I believe he still practices there, I’ll just call him Dr. Perv. Not perv like gather the children and lock the doors perv, just that he had a [...]
The blindfold I’m wearing in this week’s HNT is The World’s Best Blindfold by Scott Paul Designs, and it really is the world’s best blindfold.
Scott Paul Designs donated 40 (!!) of these blindfolds for the FetLife Kinky Christmas Stockings. At the time, as a FetLife greeter, I lucked out and got one. If you’re into [...]
I’ve had the honor of knowing Master Z (Chicago) from being teammates on the FetLife Greeting Team. From the very beginning, in our first interaction, he was warm and compassionate. It was just recently that I learned just how very giving Master Z is - we were discussing a friend of mine who was homeless [...]
Happy Fetish Friday! Today’s fetish is spanking. Over the knee (OTK) spanking, bare-handed spanking, discipline spanking, erotic spanking, you name it - someone is into it! I searched on FetLife to see how many spanking groups there are now, and there are exactly 50! None of them are the same — some are local (The [...]
Kinky, slutty behavior, blindfolds, paddles, floggers, dildos, rope, and spankings are all good for the kinky side of me. But I’m like a frosted Mini-Wheat. There’s the grown-up side of me and the kid side of me. Along with bondage tape and corsets are bills and laundry. Yes, I’m a normal person - well, as [...]
LOL. I love a good laugh. These kinds of podcasts are my favorite kind - they seem very spontaneous and authentic - there’s no script - it reminds me of a radio call in show with song requests and all. I love it. To put a little icing on the cake - I got to [...]
In honor of Valentine’s day, something about love:
Marky D Sade and I met through mutual friends. I was on a date with his friend E and he was at her party. We didn’t go home together, we hardly talked, really. A couple of months later we were both at E’s house for Thanksgiving dinner. We [...]
One of my teammates on the FetLife Greeter Team is Master Z Chicago. I have been very fortunate to get to know him over the past year and he invited me to an event he is helping to organize called SINSations in Leather, a pansexual BDSM event, happening March 6-8, 2009 in Chicago, IL. Admittedly, [...]
Today’s guest writer is a delightful woman I met on FetLife, RogueAngel22. She asked me to read some of her writing and I offered to post it here because it’s good! You can read her bio and please leave a comment for her.
I was talking on the phone when I heard the doorbell ring. I [...]
DISCLAIMER: This is being posted at the request of a FetLife kinkster, Mistress_Joanne; John is aware of his nomination, but he is not behind it, nor does he have anything to do with it! If you have any comments or complaints, please contact Mistress Joanne directly!
Mistress Joanne has nominated John Baku for the Pantheon of [...]
2008 was a weird year, and then some! I started the year as a 36-year-old teacher and ended it another year older and much happier, working at FetLife.com. I met amazing people along the way. I am very grateful right now, looking back on the year, for those who influenced and impacted my life in [...]
What do you do for a group of 40 FetLife volunteers to show your gratitude at Christmas? Send them the biggest and bestest first annual FetLife Kinky Christmas Stockings!
This year, our first year at FetLife, we contacted advertisers who have supported FetLife in the past and invited them to join us in our efforts to [...]
Let’s hear it for today’s guest writer, slf, who you can make friends with on FetLife and learn more about on her blog, Craving More. And aren’t you the least bit curious what slf means? Ask her! It’s very cute, maybe she will tell you. Oh, did I mention she is beautiful, naughty, smart, and [...]
In my FetLife inbox today:
When I saw you I was stunned. You literally took my breath away.
I’d do anything to kiss you just once.
Yes, I made friends with him - my mama didn’t raise no fools! So what’s your best pick up line? Bring it on!
[The following is written by a new guest writer, slf. You can make friends with her on FetLife. Leave a little comment for her, please, as this is her first time posting on my blog and feedback is always useful!]
My right foot perched on the cold marble counter, i carefully dry the sensitive spots between [...]
God, that sounds perfectly filthy. It’s just blogger lingo for this:
Apparently Natt Nightly was tagged by the fabulous author of Femme is My Gender, and it’s kind of like an innocuous chain blog post. Oh, it’s also a nice way to share readers as people click around to read other blogger responses. Now I have [...]
I was sitting here trying to decide what to write, and God knows I have a backed up list of content I should write about, but I don’t like to write about it unless I really feel like it. So I decided to continue with my lists. Today is my list of random things I [...]
Well, it’s technically HNT, since I’m not completely exposed! However, this is from my first set of nudes that I did with Nikki (AlteredAperture.com) yesterday. I think they turned out pretty neat. There are several more on my Fetlife.com profile, if you’re curious. A very good excuse to sign up for Fetlife, if you haven’t [...]
Here’s why Fetlife.com is 100000% better than Myspace.com:
We had to remove an image (or images) from your account because they violated our Terms of Use. Our site is for people as young as 13, so we can’t have certain kinds of pics (nude/sexually explicit, violence, material protected by copyright). Find out more about content we [...]
Catalina’s Favorite Sex Blog Posts Of The Week!
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Catalina loves Sgt. Major and Backdoor Bondage
CatalinaSays.com:
Taking A Break from FetLife.com to Talk about FetLife.com
Do BDSM and McCain Go Together Like Vinegar and Oil?
MarkyDSade.com:
Mz Berlin and Ashlee Renee in Hot Medical Bondage Scene on Clips4Sale
Sabrina Fox is Flogged, Tied, Forced to Suck Cock [...]
Community building and networking are two things that I think we kinksters lack. I am addressing the networking issue. I was inspired by Lochai, who introduced me to the concept of CommUNITY building. The idea is not just about connecting and networking, but building infrastructure like any true community has to do to move [...]
I am considering a new networking project. No, not a social networking project (Join Fetlife!), just peer-to-peer networking. A common problem within the world in which we exist in cybercyberland is the lack of networking infrastructure. Over the course of the past couple of years I have more and more become the spoke in a [...]
[Thank You, The-F-Mag.com, for the awesome review of Fetlife.com! Obviously, as part of the FetLife team, I am thrilled to repost this here! This is cross-posted from Are You On Fetlife]
How often do you ask someone if they are on Facebook or MySpace? For many of us, it has become almost a reflex. The social [...]
